You are as amazing as you let yourself be. Let me repeat that.
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Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same. You get older and you learn there is one sentence, just four words long, and if you can say it to yourself it offers more comfort than almost any other. It goes like this: At least I tried.
You have to believe in them. Then do the work, take the risks.
Some people make that decision at 15 and some people make it at 50 and most never make it at all. Every time you are tempted to react in the same old way, ask yourself if you want to be a prisoner of the past or a pioneer of the future. Being single means getting over the illusion that there is somebody out there who will complete you and finally taking charge of your own life.
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Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy. Your personality is not set in stone.
Thirty days without it, and you would be fine. You think you have a soul mate, but in fact you could have had any number of spouses. You would have evolved differently, but been just as happy. You can change what you want about yourself at any time. Your personality is something else, something deeper than just preferences, and these details on the surface, you can change anytime you like. If it is useful to do so, you must abandon your identity and start again. Set fire to your old self.
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This old self will die and be forgotten by all but family, and replaced by someone who makes a difference. Your new self is not like that. George Eliot. At the end of the day, you have two choices in love — one is to accept someone just as they are and the other is to walk away. Reblogged this on bloomthoughts. Reblogged this on My Life As Brittney. Because everyone can use a good quote read: a nice kick in the butt every now and again.
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Understanding that the actions of another are rarely personal can take some of the sting out of the hurt and make it a little easier to put it behind you. The more difficult, but perhaps more important, part of the forgiveness process involves forgiving yourself. A little self-compassion goes a long way: Remind yourself that hindsight is always It is easy to look back and see how you could have done things differently, but in the moment, most people operate with the information they have to make the best choice possible for themselves, given their particular set of circumstances.
If you feel you made a mistake, use it as an opportunity to learn something and grow instead of beating yourself up. If you did something that you feel hurt someone else, do what feels right in your heart and find a way to make amends with them. After a breakup, you are likely going to have more time on your hands. Instead of rushing out to find a replacement partner to fill the void, take the time to work on you.
You want to meet your next partner when you are the best version of you, not when you are an emotional train wreck. Spend some extra time at the gym, buy yourself a new wardrobe, or get a new haircut. When you are busy, out and about feeling good about yourself, your attention will be on something other than the breakup, and you are more likely to meet other new people with similar interests. Jennice Vilhauer, Ph. Stop feeling confused and overwhelmed; this exercise will help you gain clarity. Find out if there's hope for your relationship or if you're wasting your time.
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